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How To Find Your Soulmate And Attract Them

If you have been searching for your soulmate for a while you may have come to a point where you feel it might be impossible. Don’t be disheartened, there are strategies to implement that will help you find that special someone and attract them.

How To Find Your Soulmate

Here are some techniques to follow in order to find your special person.

Think about what you truly want.

The solution to almost any challenge can be found in your mind, but the challenge must be clear and consistent. Taking a piece of paper and writing, “My soulmate” at the top is a great first step.

  • So think back and remember every person you’ve ever met, making a list of every particular quality you’ve ever been drawn to.
  • The people who come to mind may not even be the ones you especially liked, but you may have been enthralled by their sense of humor. Perhaps it was the parenting skills of someone else.
  • Just list all the best qualities of people you’ve ever met. You’ll probably end up with a 25-40 items list. Your list may be completely different from anybody else’s and may contain items like this:
  1. Extremely loving: Mary at high school from sophomore year.
  2. Happy all the time: Stacy at Hillside Tavern from work
  3. Honest: 10th-grade chemistry Sarah
  • Create an inspirational and exciting list. The more desirable the list, the greater the likelihood that you will hang in until you succeed.

Set a goal.

Without a goal, it is extremely difficult to achieve anything worthwhile. Wonderful things don’t just happen by accident. That’s why they’re called ‘ accidents. ‘

The objective will read like this: “I’ll have met my perfect partner on or before (target date) and have formed a relationship with him.”

Think about your goals and pursue them daily. Many of us will set goals then forget about them not two days later.

In order to maintain this priority, you need to strengthen your goals on a daily basis. Use the following two processes:

  • Every morning and night, read your goal and your list of attributes.  Just read it out loud. Easy peasy.
  • Write an end-point image of success: it’ll be about half a page describing the experience that your goal has just been achieved. Write down what you hear, feel, see and smell. This image is highly desirable for you. Do this on a daily basis.

Keep your mind open

Every day, by increasing your target, your brain will begin to offer you subtle suggestions.

  • If you’re planning to join an online dating site or sign up for salsa lessons, go for it!
  • If you don’t follow any of your subconscious suggestions, they are likely to stop.

Keep your expectations reasonable

If you want a woman in fantastic shape and is very fashionable, consider your own situation. Are you overweight? Do you wear dad clothes from Walmart?

Learning to improve certain attributes about yourself will help you attract the type of person you desire.

It doesn’t mean you have to be spectacularly amazing, you just have to put your life in order to attract what you desire in your life partner.

Put yourself out there!

Ask yourself if you’re dressed properly to run into your perfect partner as you leave the house. Be always ready!

Go out there and socialize. If you don’t spend time with those who might be your perfect partner, it’s very hard to find your soulmate.

It is entirely reasonable to meet your perfect partner in your near future if you make it a priority in your life.

Make a list of your special someone’s qualities you want to see.

So set a goal and make it a priority every day. The results will probably shock you.

The strategies you just read are found in the Laws Of Attraction. If you would like to go into a more in-depth study of the Laws of Attraction then go to Jack Canfield’s website. He is a motivational speaker and the author of the popular book series, Chicken Soup For The Soul.

Before you go on to How To Attract Your Soulmate, Be sure to read Unconditional Love: Its Meaning, Obstacles, And Challenges to get you started on the right foot in your new relationship. (or read it after this article)

How To Attract Your Soulmate

Finding your soulmate - Man and woman in love and touching face to face

The following are some things that can be done to help speed the process up and give Cupid a helping hand. Consider the following ideas.

Open up your heart

Start searching for your soulmate by opening up your heart and letting people in.

This might be a major step for you to take, but your soulmate will not force their way into your heart.

Make sure you are ready to open up your heart today.

Be Observant

People become so caught up in their daily lives that they are too busy to even notice what is happening all around them.

Once you start becoming more aware of what is taking place, meeting new people will become more likely.

Keep An Open Mind

Get rid of the idea of having a certain “type” or putting people into specific categories.

When you consider anyone can be your type, then you will significantly open up your opportunities for finding your soulmate.

Be Nice To Every Person You Meet

That appears to be such a simple thing. However, in today’s world, it is kind of strange to actually be kind to strangers.

Hold the door and offer a smile to others. Being nice will help to attract other people to you, particularly, your own soulmate. 

Stay Patient

Although you may be able to speed the process up, it will not happen instantly. Don’t assume that every person you meet is your soulmate that you are looking for.

Trust you will find your special person when it is the right time.

Listen Closely To Your Heart

Keep in mind that your heart will guide you in the right direction. Simply listen.

If you are seeing someone right now but don’t feel that lifelong pull you should have, break the relationship off gently.

However, if you feel that someone may be your soulmate, ask them out, even if being that forward is something you aren’t used to doing.

Be Yourself

Some people, when they are searching for love, will wear clothes that are more revealing or do other things that they normally wouldn’t do.

Some people might be attracted to this, but ask yourself if that is the type of person you would like to attract, to begin with.

So what is your best bet? Simply be you.

Work On Improving Yourself

When you are focused on developing your own confidence, talents, and skills, you will be attracting your soulmate towards you.

And, when they do find you, you will be at your very best. You never know, your soulmate may be teaching that class you just enrolled in.

Leave Time In Your Personal Schedule

When your schedule is overcrowded you will be too busy in order to find your true love.

If your life is jam-packed already, how will anyone be able to see you have enough time for them?

Go Out More

You won’t ever find your soulmate while you on your couch sitting alone eating bonbons and watch TV.

Get out to give your soulmate the opportunity to discover you!

Have Faith

You need to belive that you will find your soulmate and worthy of love. Having the strength of purpose, after all, can help make your dreams come true.

Visualize It

Imagine what your life would be like once you have found your soulmate.

Visualize what your house will be like and where you will be going on vacation.

When you visualize it, things will seem much more real for you and will increase the chances that it will happen.

Think Positively

Nobody likes hanging around Debbie Downers.

Have a positive attitude instead and make sure you attract other like-minded, positive people.


Something simple like a real smile will tell people you are ready for love, confident, and happy.

Be Realistic

Stop dreaming that your princess or prince is going to come and sweep you completely off of your feet.

Instead of fantasies, focus on what the realistic possibilities are.

Listen Closely To Your Intuition

When you first meet somebody, your inner voice might tell you whether this might be “the one” or not.

Either way, don’t ignore this voice.

Be As Approachable As Possible

Be as approachable as you can.

Be generous, greet people kindly, and put yourself on an equal level with others.

People will not approach you if they don’t think they can.

Stay Aware Of Your Own Body Language

There are numerous ways to use your body to communicate.

Make sure you use positive body language, and not the kind that will put off people.

Wear Red, Pink, Or Peach

Those colors show you are a person who is open to love.

Although women may feel comfortable than mean to wear pinks and peaches, red can always be worn by men.

Be The Center Of Attention

This might be a tough one if you’re an introvert but try to be courageous and place yourself in the center of attention at times.

It will help to get you noticed, but also show that you are fun and confident.

Confidence is very attractive.

Never Act Like You Are Desperate

For most people, desperation is a real turn off.

Even if you are feeling desperate, never let that show.

Tell your family and friends that you are searching for your special someone, but do this with finesse and subtly.

Learn How To Like Yourself

You obviously want to find a person who will love you for the person you are. However, this means you need to first love yourself.

If you cannot stand being with yourself, then why would anyone else want to be?

Don’t Bend On The Things That Are Very Important To You

Do not compromise on the things that are most important to you.

This includes your morals, values, and core beliefs.

That is why it is critical to love and know yourself.

Stop Looking

We sometimes get so wrapped up in attempting to find a long-lasting relationship that it’s the only thing we focus on.

If you have been searching for some time and still have not found your special one, take things easy for a while.

You may be pleasantly surprised if you let fate take its course.

Keep Up Your Spirits

Stay encouraged and understand your soulmate is really out there.

Sooner or later you will find them, even if it takes longer than you would like.

Main things to remember are:

If you don’t spend time with those who might be your perfect partner, it’s very hard to find your soulmate.

Being nice will help to attract other people to you, particularly, your own soulmate.

You need to believe that you will find your soulmate and are worthy of love.

Thank you so much for stopping by. I hope you know that I care about you and want to you be happy and find love.

I have other posts that might be helpful to you in your search:

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9 Way To Spot Romance Scams And How To Avoid Them

POF Review: 6 Reasons It’s The Best Dating App For You

10 Online Dating Mistakes You Need To Stop Making

How To Write An Attractive Online Dating Profile

I wish you love,


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